From the video, emphasis mine:
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”When people feel entitled to something they dont generally feel like they have to earn it, and they generally dont go about trying to get it by tripping over themselves as being of service, or going to the edge of the world to impress someone, prove themselves to them, or even being noticed.
When you feel entitled to something you dont jump through hoops.
You expect those things to be handed to you for a little to no effort. Just for wanting them.”
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The cure for nice guys is to actually feel entitled. To stop jumping through hoops.
Because girls are wired to feel aroused by strong, powerful, confident men who know what they want and how to get it.
And girls are wired to feel repulsed to weak, whiny, bitter guys who don’t know what they want or can’t get what they want.
So when the girl is softly courted by a guy below her who’s willing to do everything she wants just for a chance to be with her, read, “nice”, and she makes him jump through hoops for diversion, or to feel less lonely, or to have her ego validated, or to extract favors, time, attention, comfort from him, with no intention to pay back with sex or romantic interest… when the “nice” guy gets angry and frustrated and bumps those not so nice feelings into her… then she feels bad.
But the wiring, the repulsion is still there.
Why can’t he be more… manly? Why is that doing shit for her and taking care of her needs is not enough? Why change the deal now? Why so angry, so bitter, so pushy, so demanding, so unattractive? Why would such a limp dick get access to such a pristine vagina? Who does he think he is? Why so accusatory?
She feels bad, so she turns the table and makes him the bad person.
Hi, defense mechanisms.
When girls hate nice guys is because they offer a reflection. And the girl in the reflection isn’t nice.