03 Jun 2012, Posted by yohami in conversations,game,relationships, 15 Comments.
Ah. Girls who have bitch shields.
In response to Badger
Ah. Girls who have bitch shields. Surprise surprise: the “shield” is actually a part of herself. One that she uses when she feels above of something. Which she likes. Hint: it’s not going anywhere.
The bitchy side doest mean she has more value. It means that a part of her is rotten. Like a rotten fruit. What do you do when you find a rotten fruit… do you try to spin it harder and chew it carefully so you can get to the good part? or do you drop it and get a good one? or, sure you can chew the whole thing, but is that what you do when you have options?
In order to get on top of her bitch shield and disarm her you have to possess more value than her, so she lowers her bitchy game and and gives you a bridge – a reason to keep interacting. But if you have more value than her, why exactly are you trying to win over a bitch?
That game is rigged to be a hell of a sour ride.
In short, don’t waste your time with them. The worst thing that could happen is that you work your ass and actually get her, and then have to sort through her bitchy and non bitchy crazy-making sides on a daily basis.
Twice the effort and half the juice.
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June 4, 2012 1:29 am
Badger
Thanks for the link. We are in complete agreement, a woman who regular employs such tactics is one who thinks she’s justified being cruel to those she feels are below her. And if you’re her man, at one point or another, YOU are going to be “below her” and she’ll turn on you too.
June 04 2012 02:11 am
yohami
Yes. Or if you're never below her, she´ll find other ways to show you the bitch. The bitch will want to play - it is a part of her package.
June 14 2012 06:44 am
T. AKA Ricky Raw @ricky_raw
Not just that, but she'll eventually put you in positions where you'll be expected to compromise your principles and treat other people shitty as well on her behalf. That's why a lot of guys who date bitches end up burning lots of bridges and realize after they break up with the bitches that a lot of their personal relationships are now ruined.
June 4, 2012 1:52 am
just visiting
If a woman perceives herself to be higher value, she doesn’t have to come from a place of contempt. She can just as easily come from a place of kindness and benevolence.
June 04 2012 02:05 am
yohami
Agreed.
June 4, 2012 3:34 am
Michael Maier @Twitter Name
My favorite response to bitchiness anymore is “Awww… how cute… the kitten thinks she has claws.” There is no fear, just an annoyed mockery of their “power”.
I’ve also taken to mocking women that think themselves all strong and scary and it’s downright funny how fast their anger fades away sometimes. Like they cannot believe they’re not generating fear in you.
Stupid games…
June 4, 2012 4:14 am
Vagabond @Twitter Name
Regardless….you still need to know how to handle bitchiness. Every woman has a bitch lurking inside.
But agree with the premise of the article…it’s not your job to be her emotional tampon. She should, at the very least, make an effort to be nice.
June 4, 2012 4:48 am
(R)Evoluzione @Twitter Name
This is completely legit, gentlemen. Spot on with the bitch-shield takedown, Yohami.
I was almost married to one very hot young lass with a bitch shield the size of Alaska. I felt that I was a stud for getting past it, and received a ton of validation from my friends & people in my social circle for crossing that bitchy Rubicon. But it was effort in vain, because she was, above all, a bitch.
Ultimately, at least some of the value of true beauty comes from within. It’s cliche, but true. A girl with a pretty shell is a decoration. A girl with a pretty outside and a beautiful soul may be a long-term companion. But, as Outkast said, that make & model has largely been discontinued.
June 4, 2012 1:05 pm
krauser
Agreed. Because of Mystery’s influence, much of game is about trying to catch such annoying bitches rather than screening them out. Far better to let their bitch shield do your screening for you and move on to a nice woman.
June 5, 2012 12:43 am
Ceer @Twitter Name
Badger hit one pretty well. I’d say triple. Even assuming you are an introvert, going out with friends at night to a club frequented by singles is a clear sign for guys to approach.
Day game is less her fault, but she’s also dealing with no more than a few passes per day. Why would you NOT go for a “I realize that you’d like to get to know me. I take it as a compliment. Thank you, but I’m not interested at the moment. Good luck with finding your sweety.” as a MINIMUM for good manners?
My frame is going to be a less “she’s a broken person” and more “she’s breaking an implicit social code”. The general case is to assume the other person is mature enough to understand a directly stated intent, and to intend for your statements to have a polite manner. Isn’t this part of what feminists fought for…being taken seriously and literally? Women can start by using the general case assumption for when men meet them.
June 5, 2012 12:44 am
Leap of a Beta
I never understood the appeal of using game to get through a bitch shield. For me approaching and interacting with a woman is fun; as it should be. If I encountered a bitch shield it would immediately not be fun, it’d be a barrier I didn’t care enough to even try to get around. Why do something that’s not fun, for someone that’s not fun, when you could be having fun to get a quality woman?
June 5, 2012 1:32 am
Comment_Whatever
It’s called looking for what you want.
After a certain beauty threshold is meant… and if it’s 9s for you and you can do it, more power to you…. men should have a dozen or more point list to match the woman’s hundreds of point list.
It’s not turnabout. It’s just looking for what you want.
June 5, 2012 6:19 am
SouthTX @Twitter Name
I’m glad you have achieved success. But think of what it took to build it. Your place is a marvel. The folks that knew how to do it. We live at a different level. Keep it in mind. I deal with the folks who work for us. Our women appreciate success, but measure it differently. Good luck on the journey and God Bless.
June 14, 2012 6:40 am
T. AKA Ricky Raw @ricky_raw
Ha, such a simple yet powerful syllogism. Downright zenlike! Good job.
I’m really glad to find this meme about not bothering with bitch shields or obsessing over passing shit tests catching on.
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