12 Jan 2012, Posted by yohami in conversations,politics, 15 Comments.

No, women can’t live without men.


Say that again?: “A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle”, “we dont need men”, “we only need men because the work they do on society”, “we only need the sperm”, “women can live without men” etc.

So, somehow men is the single thing women collectively worry about the most, think about the most, want the most, seem to need the most, but they can live without men?

Well, no, women can’t live without men. This view that women only need men because of the work they do on society / measuring the value of men because of the work / pleasure / value they do for women is bullshit of the highest caliber.

First, change “men” with “we dont need blacks, yellows, we dont need women, we dont need catholics, we dont need white people, we dont need the poor” and see what happens.

Second, if you dont see inner value in men as human beings, you dont deserve a man, nor deserve any of the fruits of the men´s hard work either.

Third, shut the fuck up.

Sex differentiation makes us complimentary. Men and women need each other and any of the sexes without the other would fuck up, become an unhealthy / imbalanced, and the species would die after a generation. Even if we could survive on artificial clonation (no women needed either) we would collapse: all of our instincts and mechanisms are prepared and differentiated for a system where each of the sexes have to exist – we need each other´s energy and interaction – we need the other so we can be ourselves, we cant strive or survive in isolation.

So shut up and go get a man. You know you need one.

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15 Comments

January 12, 2012 8:47 pm

Jim

Problem is you get to the point as a male that you don’t WANT to put up with a woman. And for some odd reason women still think men will be there for them. They are wrong of course, especially after having to hear that tired drivel from their narcissistic mouths being repeated time and time again.

January 12, 2012 11:30 pm

Sasha

IME, women who proclaim an equivalent of “I don’t want a man” (or “A woman needs a man like fish needs a bicycle”) are the ones who need a man the most but are tired of not being fully met by men they meet. It’s the case of sour grapes or never having tasted sweetness of the grapes.

The reason for the former usually being that they haven’t developed their own femininity enough to actually attract a man who could meet them fully. Coupled with over-development/exercise of masculine traits. Or some serious mess-up on their feminine path in the past (child/abortion).

I think this works with men/women reversed as well.

November 06 2012 22:57 pm

yohami

men are of vital importance for your survival and it's not the sperm donation.

November 06 2012 22:26 pm

emily

ok first lets kinda make this straight, first women can survive without men, i gotta say that i can survive without one.second wat the hell r u thinkin ok my point is that if there were 1 million men in this world and 6 million or more women in this world then there would be duadrillions of more people in this world and it is true that we need men but if these 1 million men does a sperm donation then women who does not want to have sex will use it i dont mean all these millions of men should do a sperm donation because their wives or girlfriends might get jealous oh and 1 more thing fuck u guys who think some of us girls are just blufing u cuz some girls like me wont wanna have kidz , oh and for ur info 2 me if i am 2 marry a man that totally disagrees with that and me fuck him and i wont ever wanna marry
sincerely,
emily

January 15, 2012 10:39 pm

Pippi Vandergeld

Women, including me, need men. I don’t need any particular man. I have one because I want one. Men need women. My man doesn’t need a woman. He has one because he wants one.

I have a professional degree. I am childfree and will remain so. If there’s one thing my continued happiness provides is job security for its doomsayers.

January 17, 2012 10:46 am

Justin

It’s interesting because when women say “we don’t need men” what they really mean is that they don’t need a personal relationship with a man. Which is true. A single woman can get by without one as long as she wants. Might not be fun or happy, but it is possible. But somehow, when women figure out that they can get by without a man in their lives, they extrapolate this to mean that they need no men at all, completely disregarding all the other men in society that make her life possible.

January 17 2012 18:54 pm

yohami

I also understand it from the economical perspective, like, "I dont need a man to pay my bills, I make my own money". But then the "women dont need men" extrapolation takes it too far.

January 18, 2012 4:36 am

Olive

Yohami,
Check my newest post. I’m pretty sure I never figured out how to buy the “women don’t need men” shit. In fact, I highly suspect women who say that are just using it to hide the fact that they’re single/alone and feel miserable about it.

October 29, 2012 11:51 am

Musaazi

I think men or women who say they don’t need a husband, simply mean they don’t want to belong, be accountable or be responsible. it is not good for a man or a woman to live alone, you become vulnerable to so many things. when you fall you don’t have anyone to lift you up. living alone is a signed death warranty.

January 17, 2013 1:24 pm

Laura

As a woman, I need a man, I want a man…but i can totally live without. My possibilities are far more wide than my needs.

April 19, 2013 6:39 am

Neither gender could survive without the other, but a man society without women would be total hell. If women didn’t have men they would be extremely depressed. If men didn’t have women they would totally slaughter each other endlessly. Think for a second that biology just doesn’t exist, in that case men could continue to be made through artificial means. If women didn’t have men the amount of suicides would go through the roof. However, women are the only thing that prevents men from totally butchering one another.

In all societies where women are denied to men until late in their life the overall aggressive nature of it is extreme. Case in point, Ancient Sparta. In Ancient Sparta men were not allowed to marry until 30 years of age! It was part of their genetic modifications of humans. Anyway I digress, Ancient Sparta was an unbelievably violent society, and I think it’s because of the lack of women. Only girls can make men not feel tough or show some softness. Often men in almost all of recorded history would come back from the brutal tough and unforgiving world and find that their wife was the only thing they had. Only around them could they show some softness without being pounced on. This proves that men would kill each other so much that life without women would be living hell, life without men for women would be extremely sad and depressing place also but without all the violence.

May 16, 2013 5:45 am

Richard Dey

I don’t mean to dispel the idea that Sparta was a violent society (tough would be a better word), but Sparta — however tough it was, was a gynocracy. Males were entirely shaped by women (and children!). No classical Greek scholar will waste his effort trying to prove that Sparta’s double-king system (one king, one general) worked in the best interests of males. Males were there to offer themselves as sacrifices for the common good — Thermopylae being a good example. The western world owes those Spartan soldiers a grave and solemn debt, but the idea that Sparta was ruled by men, by individuals or gay intellectuals the way Athens was (creating democracy, ancient science, philosophy) is contradicted by Bettany Hughes in her (excellent) PBS series. She says it quite plainly: Sparta was a matriarchy, which is exactly what it was. Males were little more than human sacrifices — as men were in WWI and WWII and, gods know, Vietnam. If you’re a male, I’d ask what women sat on YOUR selective service board …?

May 16, 2013 5:51 am

Richard Dey

By some accounts, the whole of ancient Greece was a matriarchy — until male-oriented homosexuals invaded, Apollo took Delphi from the Momgod, and refounded the Olympic Games by banishing all but one woman from it. The whole process is explicated in the ‘Oresteia’, the only surviving Greek trilogy (thanks to Christian self-righteousness and censoriousness). By this account (and by mine), the birth of western civilization resulted from the sequestration of women — especially from the marketplace. Even today, the beautiful sex spends $171 BILLION bucks on cosmetics — even before they clothe themselves in the skimpiest of outfits at the most-extravagant prices. Even today we are a male-dominated, female-fixated society; and it will be the death of us.

May 16, 2013 5:54 am

Richard Dey

What was it the Spartan mother said to her son? Come back with your shield — or upon it? That’s not a patriarchy; that’s a matriarchy — and a violent one, too.

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