12 Jan 2012, Posted by yohami in conversations,politics, 6 Comments.
No, women can’t live without men.
Say that again?: “A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle”, “we dont need men”, “we only need men because the work they do on society”, “we only need the sperm”, “women can live without men” etc.
So, somehow men is the single thing women collectively worry about the most, think about the most, want the most, seem to need the most, but they can live without men?
Well, no, women can’t live without men. This view that women only need men because of the work they do on society / measuring the value of men because of the work / pleasure / value they do for women is bullshit of the highest caliber.
First, change “men” with “we dont need blacks, yellows, we dont need women, we dont need catholics, we dont need white people, we dont need the poor” and see what happens.
Second, if you dont see inner value in men as human beings, you dont deserve a man, nor deserve any of the fruits of the men´s hard work either.
Third, shut the fuck up.
Sex differentiation makes us complimentary. Men and women need each other and any of the sexes without the other would fuck up, become an unhealthy / imbalanced, and the species would die after a generation. Even if we could survive on artificial clonation (no women needed either) we would collapse: all of our instincts and mechanisms are prepared and differentiated for a system where each of the sexes have to exist – we need each other´s energy and interaction – we need the other so we can be ourselves, we cant strive or survive in isolation.
So shut up and go get a man. You know you need one.
My name is Yohami.
Im a Singer/Songwriter.
Im on my way to have fun. 
6 Comments
January 12, 2012 8:47 pm
Jim
Problem is you get to the point as a male that you don’t WANT to put up with a woman. And for some odd reason women still think men will be there for them. They are wrong of course, especially after having to hear that tired drivel from their narcissistic mouths being repeated time and time again.
January 12, 2012 11:30 pm
Sasha
IME, women who proclaim an equivalent of “I don’t want a man” (or “A woman needs a man like fish needs a bicycle”) are the ones who need a man the most but are tired of not being fully met by men they meet. It’s the case of sour grapes or never having tasted sweetness of the grapes.
The reason for the former usually being that they haven’t developed their own femininity enough to actually attract a man who could meet them fully. Coupled with over-development/exercise of masculine traits. Or some serious mess-up on their feminine path in the past (child/abortion).
I think this works with men/women reversed as well.
January 15, 2012 10:39 pm
Pippi Vandergeld @Twitter Name
Women, including me, need men. I don’t need any particular man. I have one because I want one. Men need women. My man doesn’t need a woman. He has one because he wants one.
I have a professional degree. I am childfree and will remain so. If there’s one thing my continued happiness provides is job security for its doomsayers.
January 17, 2012 10:46 am
Justin @Twitter Name
It’s interesting because when women say “we don’t need men” what they really mean is that they don’t need a personal relationship with a man. Which is true. A single woman can get by without one as long as she wants. Might not be fun or happy, but it is possible. But somehow, when women figure out that they can get by without a man in their lives, they extrapolate this to mean that they need no men at all, completely disregarding all the other men in society that make her life possible.
January 17 2012 18:54 pm
yohami
I also understand it from the economical perspective, like, "I dont need a man to pay my bills, I make my own money". But then the "women dont need men" extrapolation takes it too far.
January 18, 2012 4:36 am
Olive
Yohami,
Check my newest post. I’m pretty sure I never figured out how to buy the “women don’t need men” shit. In fact, I highly suspect women who say that are just using it to hide the fact that they’re single/alone and feel miserable about it.
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