27 Dec 2011, Posted by yohami in politics,relationships,thoughts, 6 Comments.
When boys and girls fight, girls win.
Boys fight for hierarchy.
Girls fight for resources.
Boys fight for the leadership.
Girls fight for their survival.
For a boy, the bigger and more abstract the cause, the more he´ll sacrifice himself.
For a girl, the deeper and more personal the cause, the more she´ll sacrifice everyone other.
Boys fight to prove a point.
Girls fight to win.
Boys fight to reach out-there.
Girls fight to put it in-side.
When a weaker boy assumes defeat, he gets detained, disarmed, and then is freed to rejoin the tribe at a lower status.
When a weaker girl assumes defeat, she gets knocked down, humiliated, and then is marked for life so she cant rejoin the tribe, or is made a corpse for others to jump on top and to be feed on.
Boys fight their rivals.
Girls fight their enemies.
Boys positional and diverse. Ladders in a chain where every slot is needed, from top to bottom. Push it up, push it down. Rankings and measurement. Organized, mechanical, impersonal violence.
Girls life and death. Connections on a net which accumulates resources around the center, and expels the unwanted to the periphery. Pull it in, cut it out. Us vs them. Inclusion and exclusion. Chaotic, organic, targeted violence.
When boys and girls fight, girls win. Mostly because when boys and girls fight, boys still care.
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December 27, 2011 4:28 pm
Sasha
Boys fight for the hierarchy as a way to gain resources.
Girls fight for resources as a way to place high in the hierarchy.
December 27 2011 17:47 pm
yohami
Yes both systems correlate
December 27, 2011 8:34 pm
WHY GIRLS ALWAYS BEAT BOYS IN A FIGHT
[...] by Ferdinand Bardamu When a weaker boy assumes defeat, he gets detained, disarmed, and then is freed to rejoin the tribe … [...]
December 29, 2011 10:10 pm
Olive @Twitter Name
I like this post, Yohami. It reminds me of my competitive high school friends. With girls there is no “friendly competition,” it’s all about beating others down to make sure you win. But it’s all sneaky and conniving. I had a friend who got awesome grades, then would say “OMG I only got 95%! I’m so stupid!” just to make you feel extra bad about that 90%. She knew she wasn’t stupid, but she wanted to make sure you knew you were.
You’ve been blogging a lot about women lately. Might have to add you to my blogroll.
December 29 2011 22:13 pm
yohami
I do my best not to sound too harsh :-)
December 31, 2011 10:50 pm
Jennifer
In highschool, yeah, this is fairly accurate. Except that I see boys often being equally selfish, esp. when it comes to fighting something personal. If girls are more selfish in your description, it sounds like there’s more at stake for them; fascinating how society and our natures change and adapt, isn’t it? I know one thing: When it comes to fighting, boys tend to use violence physically, and then finish quickly, sometimes be buddies again. Girls fight emotionally, and it can last for years. It’s not just because we don’t have the testasterone to want to get physical; it’s because we take things personally and know what really hurts and how to deliver it.
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