01 Jun 2011, Posted by yohami in inner game,relationships, 5 Comments.

If you are alpha and someone crosses your boundaries, that someone is the one failing the test.

In response to WorkshyJoe

If you are alpha and someone crosses your boundaries, that someone is the one failing the test.

Nice guys beta puas etc, when the girl attempts to cross a boundary, see it as a “test” that the girl is presenting, like the girl was a teacher and was trying to teach a lesson or something. Or worse case scenario they see it as a demand from some superior being that they need to please.

Guys: if the girl is trying to walk over you, just put her in her place in whatever fashion you feel like, and with the same intelligence you need when dealing with a child.

Its not about pleasing her and passing a test and getting a cookie. Its about having steel, clear, bold, non-crossable boundaries and standing for them no matter what the situation is. And being cool and assertive about it.

Thats what makes you the man.