24 May 2011, Posted by yohami in game,relationships, 4 Comments.
So whatever she says, it doesnt matter.
So whatever she says, it doesnt matter. Everything is ammo to flirt, tease, make laugh, enjoy her, have a good time, etc.
She is stiff? shy? LJBF? wants to talk about that dude who made her suffer? It doesnt matter. This is about me and her and this is the only frame Im considering.
Unless I dont consider her as relationship (short, long, whatever) material.
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May 24, 2011 10:14 pm
Remy Gibson
This post is confusing, man. Are you saying just keep the conversation framed around “her and me”? Like Riv says, going in with the intention that something’s going on between the two of you?
May 24 2011 22:40 pm
yohami
The interaction, the whole purpose of it, is to get to enjoy each other. Thats why the ramblings about work and office and rational mind stuff are boring and cheap and a turn-off. Whatever you do, go back to the frame of having fun and enjoying each other. If you dont feel like enjoying the moment, dont go talk girls. If you dont enjoy a girl in particular, press next. When I say "her and me" I mean wondering how does it feel to be with her, and to make her feel how it is to be with me. So, proper contact vs papercut structured contact.
May 25, 2011 1:49 am
Workshy Joe
This is true.
Don’t step into her emotional frame. There could be all kinds of crap going on in her life and those are HER emotions based around HER experiences.
The emotions of the man she is interacting with are just as valid.
May 25 2011 03:01 am
yohami
yeah
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