16 Feb 2011, Posted by yohami in game, 10 Comments.
Game everybody, regardless of gender, looks or status.
Game everybody, regardless of gender, looks or status.
If you discriminate, you will see some targets as harder and some as easier, some as precious, some as not worthy. You will be playing in a ladder, reacting to the other persons value, caring about the outcome. Game will be something you think about and calibrate, instead of something you are.
But if game becomes who you are, if you just play the game, work the room, set the mood, get your way, stamp your mark and touch everybody regardless of gender, looks, status, then results will throw at you without you really paying attention, without you caring, without you discriminating. The response will be generous because you are.
Game will be natural, and success will be natural as well.
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April 6, 2011 4:17 am
ted @Twitter Name
hey YOHAMI. i decided to click on your name at the hookingupsmart site and it led me to this blog. some interesting stuff here. but i still must say i don’t know the outcomes will be what is presented. have you ever thought of calculating percentages? like how often this stuff works and what people are outliers?
i gotta say, i’ve “worked” rooms before and the results that got thrown at me were shitty to zero. oh well. nice blog though.
April 6, 2011 4:32 am
yohami @Twitter Name
yo, so there must be something you´re doing wrong. how do girls usually respond to you? when you work the room, do you feel at ease?
percentages? it depends on where you´re on the ladder, and in your own ladder.
April 6, 2011 5:06 am
ted
hey dude. i’ve done a lot of commenting tonight. thanks for being patient. as far as doing wrong, i think maybe others are doing wrong more so than me. as far being at ease, yes i am definitely at ease. even with some odd behavior i’ve experienced i’ve been at ease. i have a blase type don’t-care attitude.
April 13, 2011 10:42 am
dannyfrom504 @Twitter Name
YOHAMI- i think i’ve actually said “game everyone” over 50 times in the last week or so. my roomate (UBER alpha), just came back from cuba and was having kind of a beta patch in his life, and i had to sit and talk with him for a minute. he’ll be fine, but it was definately eye-opening. but the funny thing is, it was a totally alpha problem: he was messing with 2 married women (and had feelings for them) while cheating on his GF who is finishing up pahrmacy school in hawaii and worhips the ground he walks on. lol.
as i told riv “when you game everyone, eventually it just becomes a part of your personality and segues into NOT gaming anyone b/c you’re just being your confident and humerous self, and women eat that shit up.” or something to that extent. lol.
very handsome site sir. stay up.
April 14, 2011 9:39 pm
dream puppy @Twitter Name
This is good advice.
April 30, 2011 11:45 pm
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May 12, 2011 5:45 pm
ted @Twitter Name
@dannyform504
this is basically what i’ve done for many years and the results have been weak. even with people telling me i’ve got it. why is that?
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